Monday, December 13, 2010

Women should learn to worship her husband happy

 The true meaning of equality for people to promote gender equality
or unwilling to admit, as a woman, they need to be protected, be loved, to be cherished. Yes, they have the ability to take care of themselves, but when the end of the day, women still want to hear someone say, At the same time, men also found their own value.
To some extent, gender equality, marriage seems to have painted a more beautiful blueprint, because it is thought that equality so that women can take the initiative to show weak and her husband the trust, not in the economic or social factors had to be so under the pressure. that they can support themselves, but still choose to believe her husband, because raising a child than to make a living, so had to rely on her life more meaningful. the true meaning of equality , in this woman who loves men mm, will not help give birth to his adulation, and then trust him, rely on him; man for like a woman, will not help to pet her, protect her.
Therefore, in order to better marriage relations, women need to learn to worship a man.
more respect, more worship
for a husband, wife, the more respect for him and let him enjoy the worship of joy, he more you do.
respect your husband means that even disagree with him but also respect his choice, whether this choice is big or small. that no matter what he chooses to wear socks or which stocks to buy, what kind of food to eat What kind of friends, or to pay, what kind of preference for what kind of art or a tendency to view, you should respect him. also concerned about his ideas and proposals, concerned about his daily life. But this does not mean you have to make and his choice of the same.
When you start doing this, you are to treat him as an adult brains, rather than not responsible for the child. attendant, you become calm tone of speech composed instead of hysteria.
respect means that when her husband drove the wrong high-speed road, you do not where he should turn to correct children; not just in the wrong direction when the husband opened the boundaries even when you accusations and blame him or not an error, in fact, he like you understand their mistakes. Respect is what their husbands do, you do not try to educate him.
when you do not intend to attack his weaknesses, the he will give up on your guard, this probably made him feel safe and to share his innermost thoughts. He will tell you what he wants to give to a child of wealth, he imagined the old you look, or how he was lost childhood favorite dog. intimate that little bit of privacy in such a situation would create up.
mm worship is in any case, I support you.
when he told you what he thinks, you have to as much as possible in a friendly manner, said: You should say: , I support you. out, often nothing. to let him know you respect him, and must be accurate to use this expression.

These cases are the exception, should be bundle to her husband, then, you're wrong. On the contrary, in particular, this is the case, you need to make concessions.
when you think about it: either to control self mouth, which can maintain a harmonious relationship between husband and wife; or accused him of doing, so that we generate anger and resentment. If you keep silent, and remind yourself that everything will soon be over, then you will not have any problems, it is more Easy to do! course, if the matter of importance or urgency of the matter, and that is the exception.
demand for the final out, not tell him why or how to do
if you tell her husband what you want, not what When necessary, why or even how he do, then you are creating an opportunity for him, let him understand and appreciate the feeling of being worshiped. we always want to guess my husband thought, rather than given away. This if you go to a restaurant a la carte, you do not tell the waiter what you want to eat said: > Similarly, if you told her husband how to achieve your needs, then just as the waiter in the restaurant waiting for your order, you do not say you can eat red chicken, but tell him how washed chicken how seasoning, then the waiter must be very angry, because you look down upon his ability to cook at home.
course you do not need to tell you more like to eat chicken because the red meat mm It is not so much fat. So You do not have said to her husband: complained that he did not let you wear good clothes.
accepted
smile a smile to accept her husband's good intentions, whether it is a necklace, or rubbed his shoulder, he took the initiative for you.
smile is when her husband take the initiative to accept the made to coax the baby to sleep, take you to see the exhibition or at a party when you move a chair, you will also he a sweet smile and said, br> Sounds simple right? but many do not allow his wife to accept her husband's kindness, which is usually psychological in trouble following:
Law did not sleep well. do not take her husband moved to the chair. pass the time with her husband's good intentions, you missed a chance to promote the relationship between husband and wife.

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